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Hi, gang,
Recently, I heard about someone back east who claimed to be a vegetarian because he did not want to cause pain and death to any animals. That sounds good. Though I am on a vegan diet for medical reasons, I have respect for ethical vegans and other ethical vegetarians. However, this guy blows my mind with his strange logic. You see he may be an ethical vegetarian because he does not want to take a life, but he is also a living oxymoron. Tell me something, does this sound like an oxymoron to you. He is an ethical vegetarian abortionist. Say what? How can one be against killing on ethical grounds, while killing everyday himself? -- Andy Rugg - The Cheerful Pickle To email me, please remove "postheap" from my email address. Thanks. |
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On Thu, 15 Apr 2004 22:07:09 -0700, Cheerful Pickle > wrote:
>Hi, gang, > >Recently, I heard about someone back east who claimed to be a vegetarian >because he did not want to cause pain and death to any animals. That >sounds good. Though I am on a vegan diet for medical reasons, I have >respect for ethical vegans and other ethical vegetarians. > >However, this guy blows my mind with his strange logic. You see he may be >an ethical vegetarian because he does not want to take a life, but he is >also a living oxymoron. Tell me something, does this sound like an >oxymoron to you. He is an ethical vegetarian abortionist. Say what? How >can one be against killing on ethical grounds, while killing everyday >himself? · Vegans contribute to the deaths of animals by their use of wood and paper products, and roads and all types of buildings, and by their own diet just as everyone else does. What vegans try to avoid are products which provide life (and death) for farm animals, but even then they would have to avoid the following in order to be successful: __________________________________________________ _______ Tires, Surgical sutures, Matches, Soaps, Photographic film, Cosmetics, Shaving cream, Paints, Candles, Crayon/Chalk, Toothpaste, Deodorants, Mouthwash, Paper, Upholstery, Floor waxes, Glass, Water Filters, Rubber, Fertilizer, Antifreeze http://www.aif.org/lvstock.htm ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ __________________________________________________ _______ Ceramics, Insecticides, Insulation, Linoleum, Plastic, Textiles, Blood factors, Collagen, Heparin, Insulin, Pancreatin, Thrombin, Vasopressin, Vitamin B-12, Asphalt, auto and jet lubricants, outboard engine oil, high-performance greases, brake fluid http://www.teachfree.com/student/wow_that_cow.htm ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ __________________________________________________ _______ contact-lens care products, glues for paper and cardboard cartons, bookbinding glue, clarification of wines, Hemostats, sunscreens and sunblocks, dental floss, hairspray, inks, PVC http://www.discover.com/aug_01/featcow.html ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ __________________________________________________ _______ Explosives, Solvents, Industrial Oils, Industrial Lubricants, Stearic Acid, Biodegradable Detergents, Herbicides, Syringes, Gelatin Capsules, Bandage Strips, Combs and Toothbrushes, Emery Boards and Cloth, Adhesive Tape, Laminated Wood Products, Plywood and Paneling, Wallpaper and Wallpaper Paste, Cellophane Wrap and Tape, Adhesive Tape, Abrasives, Bone Charcoal for High Grade Steel, Steel Ball Bearings http://www.sheepusa.org/environment/products.shtml ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ The meat industry provides life for the animals that it slaughters, and the animals live and die in it as they do in any other habitat. They also depend on it for their lives like the animals in any other habitat. If people consume animal products from animals they think are raised in decent ways, they will be promoting life for more such animals in the future. From the life and death of a thousand pound grass raised steer and whatever he happens to kill during his life, people get over 500 pounds of human consumable meat. From a grass raised dairy cow people get thousands of servings of dairy products. Due to the influence of farm machinery, and *icides, and in the case of rice the flooding and draining of fields, one serving of soy or rice based product is likely to involve more animal deaths than hundreds of servings derived from grass raised cattle. Grass raised cattle products contribute to less wildlife deaths, better wildlife habitat, and decent lives for cattle. · |
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![]() "Cheerful Pickle" > wrote in message ... > Hi, gang, > > Recently, I heard about someone back east who claimed to be a vegetarian > because he did not want to cause pain and death to any animals. That > sounds good. Though I am on a vegan diet for medical reasons, I have > respect for ethical vegans and other ethical vegetarians. > > However, this guy blows my mind with his strange logic. You see he may be > an ethical vegetarian because he does not want to take a life, but he is > also a living oxymoron. Tell me something, does this sound like an > oxymoron to you. He is an ethical vegetarian abortionist. Say what? How > can one be against killing on ethical grounds, while killing everyday > himself? Ethical vegetarians are often (not always, but often) liberals to begin with. So they were probably already pro-abortion before they went off on this thing. I agree with you that someone who really cares about other living things will be against abortion (unless it's necessary, like the removal of an ectopic). -Rubystars |
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On Fri, 16 Apr 2004 16:38:37 GMT, "Rubystars" > wrote:
> >"Cheerful Pickle" > wrote in message ... >> Hi, gang, >> >> Recently, I heard about someone back east who claimed to be a vegetarian >> because he did not want to cause pain and death to any animals. That >> sounds good. Though I am on a vegan diet for medical reasons, I have >> respect for ethical vegans and other ethical vegetarians. >> >> However, this guy blows my mind with his strange logic. You see he may be >> an ethical vegetarian because he does not want to take a life, but he is >> also a living oxymoron. Tell me something, does this sound like an >> oxymoron to you. He is an ethical vegetarian abortionist. Say what? How >> can one be against killing on ethical grounds, while killing everyday >> himself? > >Ethical vegetarians are often (not always, but often) liberals to begin >with. So they were probably already pro-abortion before they went off on >this thing. I agree with you that someone who really cares about other >living things will be against abortion (unless it's necessary, like the >removal of an ectopic). > >-Rubystars In some cities there are more abortions than births. That being the case it's pretty likely that there are plenty of other cities in which there are half as many. Who do you suggest raise all of the aborted children that the parents don't want to raise? While you're figuring it out, keep in mind that the number of children needing to be raised would probably be half or more of the total number born already, which would mean another half of an Earth worth of them. |
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![]() > wrote in message ... > On Fri, 16 Apr 2004 16:38:37 GMT, "Rubystars" > wrote: > > > > >"Cheerful Pickle" > wrote in message > ... > >> Hi, gang, > >> > >> Recently, I heard about someone back east who claimed to be a vegetarian > >> because he did not want to cause pain and death to any animals. That > >> sounds good. Though I am on a vegan diet for medical reasons, I have > >> respect for ethical vegans and other ethical vegetarians. > >> > >> However, this guy blows my mind with his strange logic. You see he may be > >> an ethical vegetarian because he does not want to take a life, but he is > >> also a living oxymoron. Tell me something, does this sound like an > >> oxymoron to you. He is an ethical vegetarian abortionist. Say what? How > >> can one be against killing on ethical grounds, while killing everyday > >> himself? > > > >Ethical vegetarians are often (not always, but often) liberals to begin > >with. So they were probably already pro-abortion before they went off on > >this thing. I agree with you that someone who really cares about other > >living things will be against abortion (unless it's necessary, like the > >removal of an ectopic). > > > >-Rubystars > > In some cities there are more abortions than births. Sickening. >That being the > case it's pretty likely that there are plenty of other cities in which there > are half as many. Yep. > Who do you suggest raise all of the aborted children > that the parents don't want to raise? I suggest that the girls stop being little sluts and wait until they're married to have sex and children. I think that any pregnant teen who doesn't want her baby can put them up for adoption though. >While you're figuring it out, keep > in mind that the number of children needing to be raised would probably > be half or more of the total number born already, which would mean > another half of an Earth worth of them. I really don't think that there are that many abortions. I think in some areas it's a bad problem but in other areas it's not. -Rubystars |
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> > > Who do you suggest raise all of the aborted children > > that the parents don't want to raise? > > I suggest that the girls stop being little sluts and wait until they're > married to have sex and children. > WOAH. "stop being little sluts and wait until they're married?" that sure is a strong statement. 'slutty girls' aren't the only folks that have abortions, people of all ages screw up and have accidents. sure, you're probably more likely not to have one if you're married, since you've got the support of the family unit and whatnot....but that just opened a whole can of beans. why should a woman have to "wait" until she is married, or even get married at all, to enjoy sex? having sex out of wedlock doesn't make someone a slut. marriage isn't the damned 'be all and end all,' and women are entirely able to have responsible, safe, 'consenting adult' sex without a marriage certificate. > I think that any pregnant teen who doesn't want her baby can put them up for > adoption though. ..... |
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![]() "Cheerful Pickle" > wrote in message ... > wrote: > > > > > In some cities there are more abortions than births. That being the > > case it's pretty likely that there are plenty of other cities in which > > there are half as many. Who do you suggest raise all of the aborted > > children that the parents don't want to raise? While you're figuring it > > out, keep in mind that the number of children needing to be raised would > > probably be half or more of the total number born already, which would > > mean another half of an Earth worth of them. > > Before abortions became popular, it was relatively easy for people who > wanted to adopt to do so. I know, it was not my natural mother that took > me home from the hospital the day after I was born in 1946, it was my > adopted parents. Today, it is very hard to adopt children from the United > States, forcing prospective adoptive parents to go to China, Russia, > Romania, etc. to adopt. Of course, only the more affluent can handle the > large expenses involved in doing that, leaving many potential good parents > with no one they can adopt. Even many people who can afford to raise a > child might not be in a position to fork out $30,000 or so up front for an > out of country adoption. domestic adoption costs just as much, at up to $30 000 a pop. i remember hearing about some scandal on the news a little while back about how agencies were charging way more for white babies, since they were in high demand, whereas all of these domestic black babies were much less wanted and less adopted. that sucks. kids need love no matter what colour they are, or what country they're from. there are enough out there, we don't need to make abortions illegal and put women through unwanted pregnancies to fuel the domestic adoption business. (I don't think my parents could have, though they > raised me well, including the cost of college.) I am not sure if there is > sufficient number of potential adoptive parents, but I suspect that there > probably would be. > > > -- > Andy Rugg - The Cheerful Pickle > To email me, please remove "postheap" from my email address. Thanks. |
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On Sat, 17 Apr 2004 19:49:10 GMT, "Rubystars" > wrote:
> > wrote in message .. . >> On Fri, 16 Apr 2004 16:38:37 GMT, "Rubystars" > >wrote: >> >> > >> >"Cheerful Pickle" > wrote in >message >> ... >> >> Hi, gang, >> >> >> >> Recently, I heard about someone back east who claimed to be a >vegetarian >> >> because he did not want to cause pain and death to any animals. That >> >> sounds good. Though I am on a vegan diet for medical reasons, I have >> >> respect for ethical vegans and other ethical vegetarians. >> >> >> >> However, this guy blows my mind with his strange logic. You see he may >be >> >> an ethical vegetarian because he does not want to take a life, but he >is >> >> also a living oxymoron. Tell me something, does this sound like an >> >> oxymoron to you. He is an ethical vegetarian abortionist. Say what? >How >> >> can one be against killing on ethical grounds, while killing everyday >> >> himself? >> > >> >Ethical vegetarians are often (not always, but often) liberals to begin >> >with. So they were probably already pro-abortion before they went off on >> >this thing. I agree with you that someone who really cares about other >> >living things will be against abortion (unless it's necessary, like the >> >removal of an ectopic). >> > >> >-Rubystars >> >> In some cities there are more abortions than births. > >Sickening. Well, we have to live with it. Every egg is a potential human, and every sperm for that matter. If a person decides not to have a child for say 5 years, there are many potential children who won't experience life during that time, and many more after even if they do have one after 5 years. Only a tiny percentage of them actually become humans. >>That being the >> case it's pretty likely that there are plenty of other cities in which >there >> are half as many. > >Yep. > >> Who do you suggest raise all of the aborted children >> that the parents don't want to raise? > >I suggest that the girls stop being little sluts and wait until they're >married to have sex and children. > >I think that any pregnant teen who doesn't want her baby can put them up for >adoption though. > >>While you're figuring it out, keep >> in mind that the number of children needing to be raised would probably >> be half or more of the total number born already, which would mean >> another half of an Earth worth of them. > >I really don't think that there are that many abortions. I think in some >areas it's a bad problem but in other areas it's not. > >-Rubystars This isn't really my thing, but if you want to check into if further here's a bit to get started with: __________________________________________________ _______ One out of every 4 babies conceived in the United States is aborted. In more than 14 metropolitan areas, abortions out number live births. More than 30 million abortions have occurred since 1973. Each year 1.5 million unborn babies die by abortion. (2) http://www.hhpcc.com/facts.htm ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ __________________________________________________ _______ How many abortions are performed in California each year? The truth is, no one knows -- and California, unlike most states, is making almost no effort to find out. [...] According to the federal government, California was second only to New York in the ratio of abortions to live births in 1996. For every 1000 live births, there were 519 abortions. The ratio in New York was 580 abortions for every 1000 live births. The national average for the same year was 314 per 1000. http://www.losangelesmission.com/ed/...002/0602bm.htm ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ __________________________________________________ _______ Other than the District of Columbia, which had more abortions than it did live births(!), the five states with the highest ratios of abortions to 1,000 live births were New York (547), California (525), Delaware (501), Rhode Island (440), and Florida (425). http://www.usembassy-china.org.cn/sandt/ru486.html ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ __________________________________________________ _______ Recently released preliminary results from the 1999 Ukraine Reproductive Health Survey document an alarming level of abortions among Ukrainian women. Almost 40 percent of all women age 15 to 44 have had at least one abortion, and 18 percent had at least two abortions. Since January 1994 almost half of all the pregnancies that ended were terminated by induced abortions, and there were more abortions reported than live births. http://www.ukrweekly.com/Archive/2000/360012.shtml ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ __________________________________________________ _______ How many abortions are there in China? Statistics compiled by the Ministry of Health (MOH) and the State Family Planning Commission (SFPC) have diverged sharply since 1992. In 1992, both government agencies put the number of abortions at 10 million. But by 1994, MOH reported 9.46 million abortions, and the SFPC only 6.28 million. By 1998, the gap had grown to 7.38 million (MOH) vs. 2.63 million (SFPC). http://www.usembassy-china.org.cn/sandt/ru486.html ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ __________________________________________________ _______ # Nearly a quarter of all 1996 births in Colorado (24.8 percent) were to unwed mothers. For comparison, the figure for unwed mothers giving birth in Colorado in 1940 was 2 percent; in 1950, 3 percent; in 1960, 4.2 percent; in 1970 9.6 percent; in 1980, 13 percent; and in 1990, 21.2 percent. 3 [...] # Of the 9,710 abortions performed in 1996, women receiving their second abortion accounted for 23.7 percent (2,298). Women receiving their third abortion totaled 716 (7.4%) and women receiving at least their fourth abortion accounted for 3.1 percent (299) of all abortions. 5 http://www.rmfc.org/adv98wi.html ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ __________________________________________________ _______ In the midst of a pro-life post, Sara of Diotima surprised me by pointing out that 70,000 women die each year from unsafe abortions. [...] There is no serious doubt that pro-life laws lead to increased death and injuries due to unsafe abortions. Furthermore, as the Netherlands show, it's possible to have the world's lowest rate of abortion by concentrating on reducing demand, rather than by threatening doctors and mothers with jail time. http://www.amptoons.com/blog/001288.html ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ |
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On Sat, 17 Apr 2004 17:37:18 -0700, Cheerful Pickle > wrote:
wrote: > >> >> In some cities there are more abortions than births. That being the >> case it's pretty likely that there are plenty of other cities in which >> there are half as many. Who do you suggest raise all of the aborted >> children that the parents don't want to raise? While you're figuring it >> out, keep in mind that the number of children needing to be raised would >> probably be half or more of the total number born already, which would >> mean another half of an Earth worth of them. > >Before abortions became popular, it was relatively easy for people who >wanted to adopt to do so. I know, it was not my natural mother that took >me home from the hospital the day after I was born in 1946, it was my >adopted parents. Wow! How fortunate for you, and them. >Today, it is very hard to adopt children from the United >States, Why is that? >forcing prospective adoptive parents to go to China, Russia, >Romania, etc. to adopt. Of course, only the more affluent can handle the >large expenses involved in doing that, leaving many potential good parents >with no one they can adopt. Even many people who can afford to raise a >child might not be in a position to fork out $30,000 or so up front for an >out of country adoption. (I don't think my parents could have, though they >raised me well, including the cost of college.) I am not sure if there is >sufficient number of potential adoptive parents, but I suspect that there >probably would be. That's not my impression, because of the huge number of abortions, and how high a percentage in relation to births...and then the number of unplanned births needs to be factored in somehow too I would think. But, even if it only reduced the number of abortions by a low percentage, that could still mean decent lives for a LOT of kids. Of course we're not supposed to consider decent lives as a moral issue--only horrible lives and death, which would be involved as well--but I consider decent lives as well as the other even if we're not supposed to. It sounds like your parents had made some type of arrangements prior to your birth. Surely they didn't just go down to the hospital one day and say: "That's a cute little cucumber. We'll take it if your sure no one else wants to keep it." I've been wondering for years why womem can't make arrangements to carry a child even if they don't want to raise it, then have someone like your folks ready to raise the child when the time comes, and probably give the mother herself something for her time and inconvenience. Why doesn't that work? |
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> __________________________________________________ _______ > In the midst of a pro-life post, Sara of Diotima surprised me by pointing out that > 70,000 women die each year from unsafe abortions. > [...] > There is no serious doubt that pro-life laws lead to increased death and injuries > due to unsafe abortions. Furthermore, as the Netherlands show, it's possible to > have the world's lowest rate of abortion by concentrating on reducing demand, > rather than by threatening doctors and mothers with jail time. > > http://www.amptoons.com/blog/001288.html > ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ great link! thanks for posting ( ![]() |
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![]() "katie" > wrote in message .rogers.com... > .... > > > > > Who do you suggest raise all of the aborted children > > > that the parents don't want to raise? > > > > I suggest that the girls stop being little sluts and wait until they're > > married to have sex and children. > > > WOAH. "stop being little sluts and wait until they're married?" that sure > is a strong statement. You're right. That was a little over the top. Sorry. Still, it makes me angry when girls think they can have sex without any consequences. If they don't use protection: condoms and chemical contraceptives, they are choosing to conceive and should therefore deal with the consequences of that choice. > 'slutty girls' aren't the only folks that have > abortions, people of all ages screw up and have accidents. Which could be prevented with a little common sense. >sure, you're > probably more likely not to have one if you're married, since you've got the > support of the family unit and whatnot....but that just opened a whole can > of beans. why should a woman have to "wait" until she is married, or even > get married at all, to enjoy sex? Fornication is a sin. >having sex out of wedlock doesn't make > someone a slut. You're right, if they're not promiscuous. Unfortunately I think a lot of these kids are promiscuous. > marriage isn't the damned 'be all and end all,' and women > are entirely able to have responsible, safe, 'consenting adult' sex without > a marriage certificate. Sure they can. That's their legal right, but I don't think they have a right to kill a baby. -Rubystars |
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![]() "Rubystars" > wrote in message ... > > "katie" > wrote in message > .rogers.com... > > .... > > > > > > > Who do you suggest raise all of the aborted children > > > > that the parents don't want to raise? > > > > > > I suggest that the girls stop being little sluts and wait until they're > > > married to have sex and children. > > > > > WOAH. "stop being little sluts and wait until they're married?" that > sure > > is a strong statement. > > You're right. That was a little over the top. Sorry. > > Still, it makes me angry when girls think they can have sex without any > consequences. If they don't use protection: condoms and chemical > contraceptives, they are choosing to conceive and should therefore deal with > the consequences of that choice. > honestly, i really think that when young folks make dangerous choices about sex, it's partially because of their really crappy sex ed (which i remember as a grade 5 lecture by a visiting lady named 'mrs. dick' i kid you not. all i remember is a class filled with giggling at her and the word 'penis.' and the sex ed in grade 9 gym that consisted of passing around a diaphragm, condom, and pill-case, learning some anatomy, and watching a horrifying video about childbirth...not terribly enlightening). teenagers are living in some kind of bubble where they don't see the consequences of their actions so much until it's too late. the whole 'i'm indestructible thing' that goes along with all reckless decisions at that age. you just don't think about it. knowing that, it seems that really thorough sex ed and stuff like the 'baby think it over' program are extra important, cause kids are having sex before they're really mature enough to get the responsability that goes with it. > > 'slutty girls' aren't the only folks that have > > abortions, people of all ages screw up and have accidents. > > Which could be prevented with a little common sense. which we definitely need to instill with good sex ed. if you've got grade 7 kids giving each other blowjobs cause they think it's a 'cool' and safe alternative to sex, that might indicate that the kids are thinking about sex as a commodity of coolness, and need some education about respecting themselves. > > >sure, you're > > probably more likely not to have one if you're married, since you've got > the > > support of the family unit and whatnot....but that just opened a whole can > > of beans. why should a woman have to "wait" until she is married, or even > > get married at all, to enjoy sex? > > Fornication is a sin. if you subscribe to certain religions. if your religion guides your sexual practices, that's great for you. it'll serve as your guide to what is acceptable to you. but that doesn't apply to everyone. > > >having sex out of wedlock doesn't make > > someone a slut. > > You're right, if they're not promiscuous. Unfortunately I think a lot of > these kids are promiscuous. i think it's partially because sex is treated as such a taboo thing, and no one's teaching them enough about it. if it seems really normal, and you remind them that their parents do it (which would make them want to become nuns, i'm sure), and you demystify and de-cool it, and teach folks to do it when they're truly ready and in a way that respects themselves, there'd be less of that happening. good sex ed. > > > marriage isn't the damned 'be all and end all,' and women > > are entirely able to have responsible, safe, 'consenting adult' sex > without > > a marriage certificate. > > Sure they can. That's their legal right, but I don't think they have a right > to kill a baby. > kill a baby, no. but we're talking about a fetus here. |
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![]() "katie" > wrote in message .rogers.com... > > "Rubystars" > wrote in message > ... > > > > "katie" > wrote in message > > .rogers.com... > > > .... > > > > > > > > > Who do you suggest raise all of the aborted children > > > > > that the parents don't want to raise? > > > > > > > > I suggest that the girls stop being little sluts and wait until > they're > > > > married to have sex and children. > > > > > > > WOAH. "stop being little sluts and wait until they're married?" that > > sure > > > is a strong statement. > > > > You're right. That was a little over the top. Sorry. > > > > Still, it makes me angry when girls think they can have sex without any > > consequences. If they don't use protection: condoms and chemical > > contraceptives, they are choosing to conceive and should therefore deal > with > > the consequences of that choice. > > > honestly, i really think that when young folks make dangerous choices about > sex, it's partially because of their really crappy sex ed (which i remember > as a grade 5 lecture by a visiting lady named 'mrs. dick' i kid you not. > all i remember is a class filled with giggling at her and the word 'penis.' > and the sex ed in grade 9 gym that consisted of passing around a diaphragm, > condom, and pill-case, learning some anatomy, and watching a horrifying > video about childbirth...not terribly enlightening). teenagers are living > in some kind of bubble where they don't see the consequences of their > actions so much until it's too late. the whole 'i'm indestructible thing' > that goes along with all reckless decisions at that age. Which is exactly why they should be celibate. > you just don't > think about it. knowing that, it seems that really thorough sex ed and > stuff like the 'baby think it over' program are extra important, cause kids > are having sex before they're really mature enough to get the responsability > that goes with it. Yeah. You'd think they could at least go get some condoms. They're *not* hard to come by. They're at every grocery store and drug store, and most convenience stores. They're not prohibitively expensive either. > > > 'slutty girls' aren't the only folks that have > > > abortions, people of all ages screw up and have accidents. > > > > Which could be prevented with a little common sense. > > which we definitely need to instill with good sex ed. if you've got grade 7 > kids giving each other blowjobs cause they think it's a 'cool' and safe > alternative to sex, that might indicate that the kids are thinking about sex > as a commodity of coolness, and need some education about respecting > themselves. Yeah. I agree with you on the better sex ed bit. > > >sure, you're > > > probably more likely not to have one if you're married, since you've got > > the > > > support of the family unit and whatnot....but that just opened a whole > can > > > of beans. why should a woman have to "wait" until she is married, or > even > > > get married at all, to enjoy sex? > > > > Fornication is a sin. > > if you subscribe to certain religions. if your religion guides your sexual > practices, that's great for you. it'll serve as your guide to what is > acceptable to you. but that doesn't apply to everyone. You're right, but you were asking why I thought they should wait until they're married. I think people generally have the right to have consensual sex when they want to, but I think that several religions have that rule for a reason, mostly because of the trouble it causes when a baby is conceived without the support network there. > > >having sex out of wedlock doesn't make > > > someone a slut. > > > > You're right, if they're not promiscuous. Unfortunately I think a lot of > > these kids are promiscuous. > > i think it's partially because sex is treated as such a taboo thing, and no > one's teaching them enough about it. if it seems really normal, and you > remind them that their parents do it (which would make them want to become > nuns, i'm sure), and you demystify and de-cool it, and teach folks to do it > when they're truly ready and in a way that respects themselves, there'd be > less of that happening. good sex ed. lol. Yeah, well I have some mixed feelings here. On the one hand, if you treat it like the "forbidden fruit" then they're going to want to go have sex just out of curiousity, but on the other hand, I do think that the dangers, and the risks, need to be made very clear. I agree with you that better education needs to happen. > > > marriage isn't the damned 'be all and end all,' and women > > > are entirely able to have responsible, safe, 'consenting adult' sex > > without > > > a marriage certificate. > > > > Sure they can. That's their legal right, but I don't think they have a > right > > to kill a baby. > > > kill a baby, no. but we're talking about a fetus here. A fetus is a medical term for a developing baby. Even early on it develops arms, legs, heart, brain, etc. -Rubystars |
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> > Yeah. You'd think they could at least go get some condoms. They're *not* > hard to come by. They're at every grocery store and drug store, and most > convenience stores. They're not prohibitively expensive either. > on the condoms note, some self-righteous store clerks won't sell them to young people. which is totally irresponsible. as if it's not intimidating enough to buy condoms. when you're a teenager, clerks really give you 'looks,' and it's really embarassing, especially if you're a girl (whereas every guy is supposed to have that ancient condom stowed in his wallet). and i completely don't trust condoms. plus, they don't prevent all stds, although i would certainly hope that teenagers wouldn't have racked up too many by such a young age! ick. but yeah, even in a secure, long-term relationship, i am so NOT going to get knocked up, i'm all about double-bagging. i really think that's something that should be instilled in kids, over and above the no-glove, no love thing, which is good, but doesn't quite go far enough. condoms break, or leak, or whatnot. and people seem to think that you won't get knocked up if you're on the pill, but they don't realize that the 99.6% effectiveness is based on PERFECT use. and who manages to use them perfectly? i wouldn't want to be one of the 4/1000 that winds up with a kid even with perfect use. so you've really got to mix at least 2 kinds of b.c., which can be pretty hard if you've got allergies. (i'm allergic to both latex and nonoxynol-9...that sure wasn't fun to find out!) can't wait for the male pill to come out. that'll be a huge bonus to monogamous couples who are disease free and hate rubbers (doesn't everyone!) at this point, i'm even thinking about something permanent, because b.c. pills are so evil. but even the permanent stuff isn't 100% guaranteed. vasectomies and tubals can fail, or spontaneously heal and whatnot. that sure would suck! what we really need is an on/off switch for the fertility...*sigh*... .... |
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![]() "katie" > wrote in message et.cable.rogers.com... > ... > > > > Yeah. You'd think they could at least go get some condoms. They're *not* > > hard to come by. They're at every grocery store and drug store, and most > > convenience stores. They're not prohibitively expensive either. > > > on the condoms note, some self-righteous store clerks won't sell them to > young people. That's stupid. They're the main ones who need them. ![]() >which is totally irresponsible. as if it's not intimidating > enough to buy condoms. lol. I was working at Kroger one night and this guy comes in to buy condoms. He looked like he was in his early 20s. He didn't want to hand them to me (I guess he was kind of embarassed) so he threw them down across the register, which caused a "beep". I picked them up to hand them to the sacker, and as I picked them up, it scanned them again. I hit the void button to void the second time off, but the void limit was set ridiculously low, so I had to call a manager to unlock it. She comes over and I tell her that I scanned something twice and I needed her to unlock the keyboard so I could go ahead and have him pay for it. She says "What did he buy?" I tried to spare him some of his dignity and I said: "Something from the drug area". "Yeah," she said "but what did he buy?" So I had to say condoms, and the guy's face was bright red. So the keyboard stuff gets taken care of and he pays for it, and by that time he seems to be happy (I think he was happy to get out of there). And as the sacker hands the plastic bag to him with the condom box inside she says "Have a good night!" The guy just grinned then and said "Oh I will!" He didn't have to be so embarassed, anyway. There's nothing to be ashamed of. Buying condoms is the *responsible* thing to do, and everyone knows people have sex anyway. Was he embarassed about having sex? lol > when you're a teenager, clerks really give you > 'looks,' and it's really embarassing, especially if you're a girl (whereas > every guy is supposed to have that ancient condom stowed in his wallet). That's dumb. The teenagers need it more than anyone else. > and i completely don't trust condoms. You can't completely trust them, that's why girls need to be using contraceptives too. That way either method should make up for the failure rate of the other when it comes to preventing pregnancy. One or the other though should protect most of the time, and condoms are very easy to get a hold of. >plus, they don't prevent all stds, True. > although i would certainly hope that teenagers wouldn't have racked up too > many by such a young age! ick. It depends on how promiscuous they are, or how promiscuous their partner is. >but yeah, even in a secure, long-term > relationship, i am so NOT going to get knocked up, i'm all about > double-bagging. i really think that's something that should be instilled in > kids, over and above the no-glove, no love thing, which is good, but doesn't > quite go far enough. condoms break, or leak, or whatnot. and people seem > to think that you won't get knocked up if you're on the pill, but they don't > realize that the 99.6% effectiveness is based on PERFECT use. and who > manages to use them perfectly? i wouldn't want to be one of the 4/1000 that > winds up with a kid even with perfect use. so you've really got to mix at > least 2 kinds of b.c., which can be pretty hard if you've got allergies. Most people don't have allergies though, but I agree, two methods are better than one. > (i'm allergic to both latex and nonoxynol-9...that sure wasn't fun to find > out!) can't wait for the male pill to come out. that'll be a huge bonus to > monogamous couples who are disease free and hate rubbers (doesn't everyone!) > at this point, i'm even thinking about something permanent, because b.c. > pills are so evil. but even the permanent stuff isn't 100% guaranteed. Well be careful with the permanent stuff. Just in case you change your mind later. And you have to be careful with anything having to do with the fallopian tubes being damaged because you could be at risk for an ectopic, which could be lethal if it's not removed (that's one of the few cases where I completely support abortion). > vasectomies and tubals can fail, or spontaneously heal and whatnot. that > sure would suck! Yeah it would. >what we really need is an on/off switch for the > fertility...*sigh*... That would be great! -Rubystars |
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![]() katie > wrote in message et.cable.rogers.com... > ... > > > > Yeah. You'd think they could at least go get some condoms. They're *not* > > hard to come by. They're too easy to come *in* though, if you're not careful! They're at every grocery store and drug store, and most > > convenience stores. They're not prohibitively expensive either. > > > on the condoms note, some self-righteous store clerks won't sell them to > young people. which is totally irresponsible. as if it's not intimidating > enough to buy condoms. when you're a teenager, clerks really give you > 'looks,' and it's really embarassing, especially if you're a girl (whereas > every guy is supposed to have that ancient condom stowed in his wallet). > and i completely don't trust condoms. plus, they don't prevent all stds, > although i would certainly hope that teenagers wouldn't have racked up too > many by such a young age! ick. but yeah, even in a secure, long-term > relationship, i am so NOT going to get knocked up, i'm all about > double-bagging. i really think that's something that should be instilled in > kids, over and above the no-glove, no love thing, which is good, but doesn't > quite go far enough. condoms break, or leak, or whatnot. and people seem > to think that you won't get knocked up if you're on the pill, but they don't > realize that the 99.6% effectiveness is based on PERFECT use. and who > manages to use them perfectly? i wouldn't want to be one of the 4/1000 that > winds up with a kid even with perfect use. so you've really got to mix at > least 2 kinds of b.c., which can be pretty hard if you've got allergies. > (i'm allergic to both latex and nonoxynol-9...that sure wasn't fun to find > out!) can't wait for the male pill to come out. that'll be a huge bonus to > monogamous couples who are disease free and hate rubbers (doesn't everyone!) > at this point, i'm even thinking about something permanent, because b.c. > pills are so evil. but even the permanent stuff isn't 100% guaranteed. > vasectomies and tubals can fail, or spontaneously heal and whatnot. that > sure would suck! what we really need is an on/off switch for the > fertility...*sigh*... > ... > > |
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> Hi, gang, > > Recently, I heard about someone back east who claimed to be a vegetarian > because he did not want to cause pain and death to any animals. That > sounds good. Though I am on a vegan diet for medical reasons, I have > respect for ethical vegans and other ethical vegetarians. > > However, this guy blows my mind with his strange logic. You see he may be > an ethical vegetarian because he does not want to take a life, but he is > also a living oxymoron. Tell me something, does this sound like an > oxymoron to you. He is an ethical vegetarian abortionist. Say what? How > can one be against killing on ethical grounds, while killing everyday > himself? > > i dont know but i wouldnt call medical vegans "vegans" for me "vegan" stands for animal rights -- .-. "Only wimps use tape backup: /V\ real men just upload their important stuff // \\ on ftp, and let the rest of the world mirror it." /( )\ -- Linus Torvalds, after a hard drive crash ^^-^^ |
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![]() "Marvin Preuss" > wrote in message ... > > i dont know but i wouldnt call medical vegans "vegans" for me "vegan" > stands for animal rights > > -- I'm not a medical vegan myself, but if someone is doesn't eat animal products or dirivatives, doesn't wear animal products, etc then they are still a vegan regardless of what their reasoning behind it is. |
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> this thing. I agree with you that someone who really cares about other
> living things will be against abortion (unless it's necessary, like the > removal of an ectopic). But since humans are the biggest single cause of net suffering, pollution and destruction on this planet, less humans = less suffering and waste? Also, shouldn't a child have a loving biological mother? A mother prepared to kill her foetus seems like someone who would not be a good mother otherwise. John C |
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John Coleman wrote:
> Also, shouldn't a child have a loving biological mother? A mother prepared > to kill her foetus seems like someone who would not be a good mother > otherwise. Hey, John, I had a very loving mother and a good life, but not thanks to my biological mother. I never even laid eyes on her. She gave me up for adoption at birth. At least this was in the days long before Roe v. Wade. After that I probably would never have had a chance at life at all. Who says a loving mother has to be biological? Don't say that to my mother, who was not biological. -- Andy Rugg - The Cheerful Pickle To email me, please remove "postheap" from my email address. Thanks. |
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Marvin Preuss > wrote in message news:
> > i dont know but i wouldnt call medical vegans "vegans" for me "vegan" > stands for animal rights While I can understand this line of reasoning, especially as regards the origins of the word "vegan," I find it a tad bit dogmatic and exclusivist. Since dietary veganism is becoming more and more commonplace in this day and age, wouldn't it simply be easier for such people, when asked to describe their dietary stance, to state that they are "vegans" rather than "non-dairy vegetarians" or some other such description? And would not such people, by virtue of their not consuming meat or dairy products, also be contributing a great deal to the AR cause, despite the fact that they may not even care about AR in particular? And what of those who still have leather or wool products, both much more widely accepted and prevalent than fur? Someone who had previous spent a great amount of money buying a car with leather seats or a leather couch, cannot be immediately expected to ditch such items and allow them to go to waste, even if they have "converted" to AR. Are they any less vegan than one who has never had such products to begin with? From my own understanding, perfection is not possible in such matters, and by virtue of maintaining a vegan diet, one should also strive to eliminate all non-dietary animal products from his or her own life, so long as it is practical and economical to do so. One who has used leather or wool in the past, for example, may commit themselves to never buy such products again in the future. |
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![]() "John Coleman" > wrote in message news:5Gnlc.5$XC3.2@newsfe6-win... > > this thing. I agree with you that someone who really cares about other > > living things will be against abortion (unless it's necessary, like the > > removal of an ectopic). > > But since humans are the biggest single cause of net suffering, pollution > and destruction on this planet, less humans = less suffering and waste? I don't agree that we're the biggest single cause of net suffering. What about bacteria that infect and infest animals and other living things? What about fleas, mites, ticks, parasitic worms, etc. Those are pretty nasty to human and non-human alike. > Also, shouldn't a child have a loving biological mother? A mother prepared > to kill her foetus seems like someone who would not be a good mother > otherwise. > > John C They can always give the child to be adopted by a loving family if they don't want it. There are crisis centers all over the U.S. that help with just such situations, even specialize in them. If they don't want to raise them but still want to keep in touch they can always opt for open adoption. -Rubystars |
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![]() "Cheerful Pickle" > wrote in message ... > I have respect for ethical vegans and other ethical vegetarians. You shouldn't, because the whole "ethical veg*n" issue is a bogus one. Ethics are idiosyncratic, they are just made up by the individual (or local group) to suit personal ego issues of the moment. That is, there is no -objective- set of ethics against which to compare one's own ethics-of-the-moment. With no objective standard, one set of ethics is as valid/invalid as any other. Thus people attaching "ethical" values to diet is idiotic, but useful as a quack-detector. Laurie |
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> Ethics are idiosyncratic, they are just made up by the individual (or > local group) to suit personal ego issues of the moment. That is, there is > no -objective- set of ethics against which to compare one's own > ethics-of-the-moment. With no objective standard, one set of ethics is as > valid/invalid as any other. Hi, Laurie, Does that mean that you reject all ethical standards and conduct? I would much rather live in a world where people acted according to ethical standards and principles than in a world where everyone was an unprincipled scoundrel. You can usually trust someone with a highly developed ethical code, for instance, more than one who is utterly devoid of all ethical values. The latter are sometimes called sociopaths. While it is true that not everyone's ethical standards are in total agreement, there is often a general agreement between the ethical systems common in most cultures. That, in itself, should point to the validity of ethics, whether the ultimate source of all ethics is theology, biochemistry, neurophysiology, physics or whatever. Boy, how this thread has taken many unexpected and convoluted turns since my first posting about three weeks ago. -- Andy Rugg - The Cheerful Pickle To email me, please remove "postheap" from my email address. Thanks. |
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![]() "Cheerful Pickle" > wrote in message ... > Laurie wrote: > > > Ethics are idiosyncratic, they are just made up by the individual (or > > local group) to suit personal ego issues of the moment. That is, there is > > no -objective- set of ethics against which to compare one's own > > ethics-of-the-moment. With no objective standard, one set of ethics is as > > valid/invalid as any other. > > Hi, Laurie, > > Does that mean that you reject all ethical standards and conduct? No, it means that people arguing that -their- personal set of ethics is somehow better/superior than that of others is absurd. It means that self-deluded "ethical veg*ns" claiming that they are ethically-superior to meatarians -because- of their dietary/lifestyle choices does incalculable damage to the veg*n "movement", puts off people who might otherwise be open to factual information on the compelling scientific, epidemiological, ecological, and health issues, and it tarnishes the credibility of all veg*ns, by false association. You will notice that the psychopathetic meatarian propagandists here falsely claim that ALL veg*ns are ethically smug and offensive for that reason. dh, for example, falsely and unethically accuses ME of being an "ethical veg*n" even when I have written many articles here over several years pointing out the falsity and absurdity of the "ethical veg*n" argument, my website has over 700 references to the scientific literature, and certainly NO claims as to the ethical "superiority" of those who pursue a plant-based diet. Now, local tribes may have agreed-upon ethical standards in such domains as murder, rape, theft, fraud, assault, etc., and these are fairly obvious and fairly uniform across the human species, BUT there certainly are no well-established "ethical" standards regarding diet or clothing, so making believe that there are is simply stupid and counterproductive. It is also necessary to remember that these locally-agreed-upon ethical standards are gleefully abandoned in "service" of a "higher ethical standard" when it is time to create a war and make money. Thus, murder, maiming, imprisonment, destruction of property, and, as recently revealed in the news, torture, is suddenly ethically-acceptable if a country is invading another in direct violation of its own Constitution for the purpose of eliminating someone it paints as being unethical. Thus, as I point out repeatedly, "ethics" are quite flexible depending on the ego trip of the moment. There are no objective ethical standards. Now, if one want to believe that they are ethically-superior because of their life-style choices and keeps that fantasy in their own head so they can feel better about themselves, I have no issue with that. But when they claim ethical superiority in *public*, they are an embarrassment to themselves and the whole veg*n "movement", if such a movement exists. > ... there is often a > general agreement between the ethical systems common in most cultures. Yes, but there is no general agreement, or even acknowledgment, of established ethical systems regarding diet or clothing. And, most ethical standards apply specifically to human interaction with other humans, not human interaction with animals, plants, or the planet that supports us; we are way too immature as a species to have established general-purpose ethics. Maybe in a century or two, if we survive that long. Further, since there are no widely-established ethical standards regarding diet, it is clear that raising, killing, and eating animals is ethically-acceptable in the human family, at the present moment. Thus, claiming otherwise is absurd and counterproductive. > That, in itself, should point to the validity of ethics, ... Idiosyncratic ethical systems that can be changed at whim to support short-term goals are certainly not "valid". I hope this clears thing up a bit, thanks for your interest. I find it particularly interesting that the "ethical veg*ns" refuse to discuss these ethical issues. Laurie |
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Laurie wrote:
> It means that self-deluded "ethical veg*ns" claiming that they are > ethically-superior to meatarians -because- of their dietary/lifestyle > choices does incalculable damage to the veg*n "movement", puts off people > who might otherwise be open to factual information on the compelling > scientific, epidemiological, ecological, and health issues, and it > tarnishes > the credibility of all veg*ns, by false association. You will notice that > the psychopathetic meatarian propagandists here falsely claim that ALL > veg*ns are ethically smug and offensive for that reason. dh, for example, > falsely and unethically accuses ME of being an "ethical veg*n" even when I > have written many articles here over several years pointing out the > falsity and absurdity of the "ethical veg*n" argument, my website has over > 700 references to the scientific literature, and certainly NO claims as to > the ethical "superiority" of those who pursue a plant-based diet. Hi, Laurie, Putting it that way, all I can say is a good, old-fashioned "Amen." I was thinking the other day about "ethical vegetarianism." Actually, when it comes to being vegetarian for ethical reasons, the motive of the heart is the overarching concern. People who are "ethical anything" tend to be so for essentially one of two reasons (or sometimes a combination of the two). In the Bible, it says, "A wise man is kind to his animals." If that is the sole motivation for a particular vegetarian, then, praise God, good for that person. Here is, indeed, an ethical vegetarian. On the other hand, there are those who adopt what is really a "pseudo-ethical vegetarian" position, wherein, despite any protestations to the contrary, their actual motive is NOT being kind to animals, but saying, "how good and noble I am and how evil and rotten you are." This is, of course, sick, and an evil in and of itself because it presumes to artificially inflate one's own ego at the expense of others and builds walls between people based on arbitrary judgementalism. When I commend an "ethical vegetarian," I have the former in line. When you critique them, apparently you have the latter in mind. As in most things in life, there are probably too few of the former and too many of the latter. We may not be as far apart in our perspectives as it might appear. Hang in there. The people you critique appear to be vegetarian hypocrites, since they profess to do things for a noble reason but actually do so for purely selfserving reasons. In that, you fall into a long line of those who boldly speak out against hypocrisy, including Jesus. Just make sure that your motives are pure, or else you would end up pointing the finger at yourself and I would not want to see you do that. I mean that as a friendly warning, not as a critique, since, in what little I have read of you, I see none of that. Such hypocrites are in every area of life. We all know of hypocrites in church. On Sundays I see a few in my church myself. Recently, I heard even of some homosexual hypocrites who assumed a sickening air of moral superiority because, unlike straights, they do not contribute to human overpopulation, as though they chose to be homosexual for that purpose. Right, sure, if you believe that, can I sell you the Brooklyn Bridge? They are claiming the moral high road for something in which morality played a zero role. Of course, to find pure hypocrisy in its ultimate "perfection" (for lack of a better word), all you have to do is to look no farther than the leadership of both the Democratic and Republican Parties in the United States, or similar parties in other countries, such as Britain's Torrey and Labour Parties. -- Andy Rugg - The Cheerful Pickle To email me, please remove "postheap" from my email address. Thanks. |
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